Lets be real, I hated everything that tied me up to womanhood. I distanced myself from who I was because, society esteems men higher than women. For a long time that was deeply ingrained in my young head in a negative way.
Something had to give and in the end something did. I don’t know what the moment was. But i realised, I am a woman in every sense of the word and it is a blessing. Physically, mentally, intellectually, and spiritually I am tied up into who I was created to be as a woman. Everyday I thank God that I shook that state of mind a long time ago and therefore discovered the wonder it is to be who I am. I am who I am for a reason. I can’t force myself into a mould I cant fit in.
As humans, there is power in owning all of who you are. No one can do that for you. As that cheesy song , we all know says “They can imitate you, but they can’t duplicate you”. In conclusion, no one can do or be what you can. If you don’t serve by being you, it is all lost. As a woman and as an individual, loving me is therefore the first step to changing my own world and consequently the world around me.
I can be of service to others by using the very things that would be weak in the eyes of the world. By uplifting, nurturing, encouraging, loving and using more qualities that are more strongly displayed in the female spirit, I am therefore owning who I am,